一位心理学家建议，与其试图压抑关系中计较的冲动，不如将注意力放在用更健康的沟通策略来取代这种习惯。核心问题不在于计较本身，而是导致计较的未被表达的需求。通过公开表达需求，根据当前需求而非感知到的轮次付出，并积极认可伴侣的贡献，个人可以培养更具协作性和令人满意的关系。 AI
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心理学家提供策略，用更健康的沟通方式取代关系中的计较行为
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