A psychologist suggests that instead of trying to suppress the urge to keep score in relationships, individuals should focus on replacing this habit with healthier communication strategies. The core issue isn't the tally itself, but the unexpressed needs that lead to it. By openly stating needs, giving based on current needs rather than perceived turns, and actively acknowledging a partner's contributions, individuals can foster more communal and satisfying relationships. AI
RANK_REASON The item is an opinion piece by a psychologist offering advice on relationships, citing scientific studies.
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